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Resilient Dads

2021 - 2023

Resilient Dads is a holistic personal development and parenting skills programme developed by Sharing Voices which aims to develop the skills and competence of dads/male carers to support the social, emotional, and cognitive development of their 0-3s.

It was developed to support dads/male carers, who have experienced Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs), which may impact on their own parenting.

The project organised engagement activities for dads/male carers of 0-3s and initiated discussions about the challenges of being a parent of a young child. These led to opportunities to take part in groups to talk about their experiences, strengths and challenges.

Support was tailored to each individual’s level of comfort and uses a flexible approach to learning. It uses methods such as sport and team building to help participants engage with the programme.

For those dads/male carers (self-selected) who were seeking greater support, therapeutic 1-1s were provided with trained practitioners to help them address difficulties in their relationship with their child, often arising from challenges in their own upbringing and early relationships.

Why this project was developed

Very few dads/male carers were engaging with existing interventions in the Better Start Bradford area for a variety of reasons. Using existing community networks, Sharing Voices targeted dads/male carers in hard-to-reach communities, including those coming out of the prison system.

This project aimed to work with fathers who themselves have experienced adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) which has been further exacerbated by poverty and deprivation and may impact their parenting.

Feedback

“I have learnt so much around parenting my children and techniques to recognise the signals of when I am getting angry and how to deal with that. I am trying so hard and while I don’t manage to control my temper every time, when I do, I have seen how different things become for my family.”

“Despite my initial reluctance, I have been getting a great deal out of the sessions, especially the one-to-one sessions with my learning mentor. It was quite simply such a relief to be listened to without judgement and for me to understand that I was not a ‘bad ‘person.”

“I have been recommending Resilient Dads to friends and cousins. I say to them you can trust the learning mentor and it will change your life - it’s just realising that making small changes can have a massive impact and ease stresses in life.”

Background, impact and findings

Further reading

News / 18th March 2021
Launch of the new ACEs, Trauma and Resilience Strategy for Bradford District

Partners came together on 16 March 2021 to launch the new Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) Trauma and Resilience Strategy for the Bradford district.

ACEs, Trauma and Resilience Strategy

This strategy explains what key Bradford organisations will do to prevent and mitigate ACEs; buffer the impact of ACEs; intervene early and develop services that are trauma informed across Bradford District.